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“… grant me the courage to change the things that I can change, the serenity to accept the things that I cannot change, and the wisdom to know the difference between the two”, is a popular motto by Alcoholics Anonymous. Most of us fail in the third part, as we hopelessly try to change things that either are not amenable to change or unworthy of our time and energy.
Dealing effectively with either major life events or daily stressors requires the ability to maintain composure / remain calm under pressure, take a time-out and ‘talk sense’ to oneself.
The book aims to educate, entertain and inspire. In the first part the author discusses stress, its sources and its effects, followed by the ‘Ro’ Method, a simple but complete problem solving process, and a number of examples and real life applications. Then, using a light, humorous and innovative style, the author describes the day of ‘Don Stressote,’ a modern Don Quichote de la Mancha and ‘Ro’ Method graduate, who attempts to apply the theory in everyday life situations. Armed with courage and stoicism, Don deals with the monsters and the dragons (the idiots) of the 21st century: his partner who entered the toilette first and is reading the newspaper insensible to the needs of others, the obese fellow in the elevator, the traffic jam, his stupid boss, the thick-skinned client, as well as the most difficult person among all – his own self and his irrational expectations…
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Ice cream and chocolate were the basic nutritional food groups.
In order to transform your bicycle into a powerful “motorbike” all you needed was a plastic bottle near the wheel and a lot of imagination.
There was no better way to spend summer afternoons than playing with the children in your neighbourhood or waiting to see your favourite neighbour, who really loved you, going by.
A “big brother” was the worst torturer, but also the strongest and most loyal protector.
– Attributed to Anne Geddes
We have so far examined possible sources of stress and their various categorizations, as well as gender and age differences. It is now time to examine the physical and psychological effects of stress. Bear in mind that some degree of stress is both necessary and useful. It is excessive stress we will be talking about next.
Stress and … excessive stress
Chapter 3: Symptoms and effects of stress
Every stress leaves an indelible scar, and the organism pays for its survival after a stressful situation by becoming a little older. – Dr Hans Selye
IS STRESS dangerous? What are the effects of excessive stress on our health?
The short answer is … numerous. I assume that, like most people, you are quite stressed. Read on!
– Studies have shown that 60 to 90 percent of visits to doctors are associated with stress (Perkins, 1994).
– A study of 2,465 Danish urban bus drivers showed that little social contact with colleagues, increased work pace, and heavy traffic were predictors of ischemic heart disease (Netterstrøm & Juel, 1988).
First, let us examine the symptoms of stress.
Stress symptoms
Although stress is not visible, either to the naked eye or via a micro- or telescope, we can feel its symptoms, document its effects (quite objectively), or even observe the above in others (i.e., our spouse, our boss, the taxi driver). We can, for example, recognise if we or those around us are stressed, by identifying some of the following symptoms.22
a) Physical / physiology. Increased heart rate, perspiration, fatigue, blood glucose, adrenaline, brain activity, muscle tone, pupil dilation (mydriasis), frequent urination, tremors, shallow breathing and O2 uptake (tachypnea), dry mouth, etc.
a) Behaviour. Talking and walking fast, eating and substance abuse problems, hostility and losing temper, rapid, rhythmical and mechanically repeated movements (e.g., of the foot), rushed speech, scowling, broken voice, restlessness, yawning, flickering of the eyelids, nail biting, etc.
b) Emotions. Anxiety, worrying, anger, nervousness, irritability, fear, terror, grief, disappointment, depression, frustration, mood swings, lack of concentration, difficulty in decision-making, sensitivity to criticism, reduced attention, feelings of confusion, lack of control, etc.
As we will see later, behavioural responses to stressful events can also be classified as healthy or unhealthy. Unhealthy responses include resorting to smoking, alcohol, drugs, etc. On the contrary, healthy responses include problem solving, emotional regulation strategies, physical exercise, relaxation, healthy diet choices, etc.
Healthy die…t!
Yet, just how does stress manifest? The third category above, i.e., the body’s symptoms and reactions to stress offers a glimpse. Here is more on the subject.
Fight or flight
The famous fight or flight response goes back to the prehistoric era and was developed to assist humans (and animals) to either confront or avoid danger. It is the body’s normal and necessary reaction to any real or perceived danger. Our prehistoric ancestors had to deal with “life and death situations” almost daily. Although today people rarely have to fight off tigers and wild beasts, the body’s responses have remained unchanged. Prehistoric enemies have been replaced by real or imaginary monsters: your teacher, your boss, your wife, your monster-in-law are only some of these.
I would rather fight tigers all day than have to deal with my mother-in-law!
General adaptation syndrome
According to the General Adaptation Syndrome (G.A.S.), a mechanism proposed by the late Hans Selye (1956), the body’s response to each situation we perceive as threatening for our well-being and, hence, requiring adaptation follows three stages:
a) Alarm stage. When threatened, humans and animals mobilize their defences and literally become on guard and ready to attack or take flight. In this first stage, the body responds to stress by secreting certain hormones. Cortisol, which increases glucose in the blood system, and norepinephrine, which elevates blood pressure and boosts energy supplies. Their role is to prepare us to fight or fly. We need to arrive at a state of vigilance and readiness to deal with the event. At the same time, carbon dioxide levels increase in the blood stream causing higher respiratory and heart rate, raised blood pressure and blood density to carry more oxygen to muscles, sudden perfusion of large muscle groups (arms, legs, etc.). At the same time, the digestive process is disrupted. Who needs to digest when they are about to be eaten and digested?
b) Resistance stage. During the second stage, the individual confronts the enemy and will resist for as long as necessary and as long as available energy reserves are adequate. Although these changes are certainly positive in the short term as they protect us from dangers, prolonged stress responses may be deleterious for our health.
c) Exhaustion. The duration of stage two is critical. How long someone can remain at the resistance stage is decisive, because eventually the third stage, exhaustion, sets in. This is when the body’s energy reserves begin to dissipate, and fatigues emerges. It is like revving a car engine for too long. The car is preparing for a fast start, but its energy reserves are depleting at a rapid rate. When in the exhaustion phase, the individual is vulnerable to additional external dangers and to disease, because of the diminished resistance of the immune system.
Psycho-neuro-immunology
Our immune system serves to identify and destroy pathogenic microorganisms.
The hormones secreted while under stress (e.g., cortisol, adrenaline) prepare us to deal with events threatening our wellbeing. As mentioned, a certain degree of stress is normal and necessary. If, however, these intense conditions last long, the body’s resistance is impaired (Marx, 1985). Frequent activation of the autonomic nervous system affects the capability of the immune system.
Individuals who feel “down” psychologically (e.g., those suffering from mild depression) are twice as likely to become ill when exposed to bacteria and viruses, compared to others who are in a good psychological condition. This is due to a decrease in the ability of the immune system to fight back (Cohen et al., 1991, Kiecolt-Glaser et al., 1992). Indeed, stress has been connected to impaired immune system (Kemeny, 2003), lower production of antibodies, inflammation of white blood cells, and reduced response to the Epstein-Barr virus.
Hurray for stress!
Stress can affect individuals in different ways, depending on each person’s predisposition to develop ailments in particular organs or systems. When under stress, some get headaches, others develop skin rashes, etc. Each person may manifest the symptoms on the system that is the most sensitive or weak for him/her.
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